Event Title: “Unlearning Feedback: Embracing the Fluidity of Becoming”
Location: The Reflection Pond, just outside the Department of Perpetual Flux
Organised by:
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The Collective for Feedback Liberation
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Students for Non-Linear Growth
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The Department of Vulnerability StudiesMascot: A chameleon named “Maybe”
CAMPAIGN MANTRA:
“Feedback fractures. Becoming flows.”
OPENING REMARKS: LUX (they/them)
PhD candidate in Non-Judgmental Ontologies
Feedback is a microaggression.It interrupts the sacred unfolding of selfhood.It demands finality where there is none.It weaponises language to halt metamorphosis.We propose a radical shift: from evaluative interruption to mutual witnessing.Feedback says, “You are not yet enough.”Mutual witnessing says, “I see you—ever-changing, ever-becoming.”
SLIDE: THE PROBLEM WITH FEEDBACK
Traditional Feedback | Mutual Witnessing Alternative |
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Critique of performance | Presence with vulnerability |
Judgment of output | Sharing of experiential resonance |
Hierarchical assessor | Equal co-traveller in process |
Fix-it mentality | Honouring ambiguity and ongoing growth |
Cause of anxiety and self-doubt | Source of compassionate co-reflection |
WORKSHOP: “HOW TO WITNESS WITHOUT INTERRUPTING”
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Practice listening with porous boundaries
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Respond with phrases like:
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“I notice your energy shifting.”
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“Your process ripples in unexpected ways.”
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“I honour the space your becoming inhabits.”
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Avoid all imperatives, judgments, or solutions
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Embrace silence as sacred space
TESTIMONIALS:
ASHLEIGH (she/her):
Receiving feedback felt like a slap; mutual witnessing feels like a hug. I no longer fear my own growth.
JORDAN (he/they):
I used to wait for feedback like a verdict. Now I share my process like a campfire story.
PETITION DEMANDS:
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Immediate removal of the word “feedback” from all course documents and meetings.
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Replacement of all “feedback sessions” with “Mutual Witnessing Circles”.
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Training for faculty and students on embodied witnessing practices.
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Establishment of a No-Feedback Zone in all learning spaces where only becoming is honoured.
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Creation of a Witnessing Ritual to replace report cards, involving the sharing of non-verbal resonances and dance.
CLOSING CEREMONY: THE WITNESSING WEB
Participants form a circle and toss a skein of yarn between one another, each sharing a moment of growth or change without interruption. The yarn web represents interconnected becoming, fragile but strong.
UNIVERSITY RESPONSE:
In recognition of the campaign, the university will pilot “Witnessing First” protocols in select departments. The annual “Feedback Week” will be renamed “Celebration of Continuous Becoming.”
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